Wanting What You Thought You Didn’t

“Experience is what you get when you didn't get what you wanted. And experience is often the most valuable thing you have to offer.” ― Randy Pausch

Face it, no matter how much of a planner and controller you may be, it’s inevitable that some things in life will not go your way.  While it may be appropriate to [briefly] lament your loss, instead challenge yourself to view it as an opportunity.  Don’t stand there staring at the door that’s been shut, instead reflect upon the situation, turn around, and open your eyes to everything else that now lies in front of you. 

Oftentimes when we don’t get what we want, we are forced to come to terms with the loss, develop new action plans, and persevere through un-welcomed situations. It is during these uncomfortable and trying affairs that a person can learn to grow and challenge themselves.

These experiences not only make you a potentially better person, but they are also unique to you. They give you a distinct perspective in viewing and handling things in daily life.  Once this is realized, a person can then leverage these experiences to achieve more for their self. This can be done any number of ways, including seeking out a dream job or passing on what you learned to those around you. 

So think about that last thing in your life that didn’t go ‘quite right.’ How did you deal with the situation and look at it? Did you turn it around to see it in a positive light? There’s a silver lining to every rain cloud; it’s up to you whether you choose to see it or not.